5.5 · Service Without Martyrdom
Saying "no" rated 3/10. Default tendency: over-give. Responsible for everyone else’s work but not my own. This cluster is the correction.
Give and Take
Givers occupy both the top and the bottom of every success distribution. The variable is whether they are "otherish" or purely selfless. That single distinction is the thing I’m missing.
Deepen
Section titled “Deepen”The Art of Possibility
Contribution as a stance rather than a sacrifice. Written by a conductor and a therapist; unusual and warm.
Cross-listed here
Section titled “Cross-listed here”Read once, counts twice. The full entry lives in another cluster.
Not Nice
Full entry in cluster 6.2.