7.5 · Desire, Intimacy & Sexuality
My hierarchy lists "sex, desires, fantasy, spiciness." Treated here as adult education with a factual basis, not as mystique and not as conquest.
Deepen
Section titled “Deepen”Mating in Captivity
The tension between security and desire — that the conditions for one often undermine the other. The serious treatment of the "polarity balance" my hierarchy names.
Come As You Are
A sex educator on responsive desire, context, and the dual control model. Written about women’s sexuality, and the single highest-value thing a man can read on the subject.
Reference
Section titled “Reference”She Comes First
Practical and clinical. Partner-focused rather than performance-focused.